“If a girl is lucky enough to receive any sex education, she will be taught the biological basics. She’ll learn that men have penises and testicles and produce sperm and women have vaginas and uterii and produce ova. She’ll learn that when a man and a woman have sex, the man inserts his penis into the woman’s vagina until he ejaculates. She’ll learn that the semen in the ejaculate will render her vulnerable to pregnancy so she will have to protect herself by using a hormonal or a barrier contraceptive. Hormonal contraception is preferable because barrier methods such as condoms, while safer for women, apparently reduce sensation for men which is obviously a no-no. It’s much better that a woman take a pill every day for her entire reproductive lifespan, or get a painful injection every 12 weeks, or have a copper rod inserted into her uterus, or a silicone rod implanted into her arm. She probably won’t learn that 3 out of 4 women never orgasm from vaginal intercourse. She almost definitely won’t learn how women do achieve orgasm. She’ll learn her place as a receptacle.”—
remus lupIN HAD TO FUCKING HOLD HIS BEST FRIENDS SON BACK AFTER WATCHING HIS OTHER BEST FRIEND DIE TO MAKE SURE HE DIDNT DO ANYTHING DNAGEROUS DO U REALISE HOW FUCKON HARD THAT MUST HAVE BEEN OK HE COULDN’T MOURN thE LOSS HE HAD TO PUT A BRAVE FACE ON SO FFFFFffFffffFffFfffUCK YOU IF YOU DONT LIKE REMUS JOHN LUPIN
“When we started kissing, I was too hesitant, and [director] John [Krokidas] went, ‘No! Kiss him! Fucking sex kissing!’ The things directors have shouted to me in the past usually involve which way I have to look to see the dragon”—Daniel Radcliffe, on shooting Kill Your Darlings (via bartonfinks)
My thing is, have sex whenever you decide to want to have sex. You want to have sex on the first night, go ahead. You want to have sex after 20 dates, go ahead. You want to never have sex, go ahead. People think that someone’s sexual choices actually coincide with their personality. If all you can think of someone’s worth is whether they want to have sex or not, then the problem is probably you.